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Breed, The (2006)
IMDB rating: 5.10
Plot: Two close brothers, Matt and John head to an exotic island for a week of fun and relaxation. Joined by Matt’s girlfriend Nicki, John’s girlfriend Sara and a friend Noah, the group intend on having a week of relaxation, fun and spending quality time together. However, after one of them is viciously attacked by a dog, the friends decide to leave the island early - only to find their plane wrecked. As the day goes on, the friends find themselves fighting for their lives against a vicious pack of mutated dogs - hundreds of them, who don’t intend on the group making it out alive off the island…
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Directors: Mastandrea Nicholas
Actors: Lively Eric,Hudson Oliver,Harper Hill,Horror,
My family all hate me because im having a baby?
Hi all.. I am 13 weeks + 2days pregnant, and 100% without a DOUBT keeping this child, i love this baby with all my heart already. It’s going to be very hard for me i know it is, i have split with my partner just before i found out about the pregnancy, i have a large dog- a Dobermann Pinscher- and i need to move house before i have the baby in august as there is not much room where i am. But i am fully ready to tackle all this stuff, my dog is quite well trained and i have researched loads about how to introduce a dog to children etc, and have got the ball rolling about finding some new place to live, i am staying positive about it all despite me and my partners split and am very VERY excited about the baby!
However, my family confronted me yesterday and said they have known about my pregnancy since before Christmas, as my mum works in the hospital and one of her colleagues spotted me there (if you are wondering why i didnt tell them before it’s because i wanted to get the all clear from my 12 week scan first) and they knew all that time but kept quiet about it up until yesterday, though i had a feeling they knew as they have been making snide comments and seemed really off with me… When they confronted me my Mum was being very cruel and horrible to me even though i was in tears, i was offloading to her about how hard it’s been for me the last couple of months (i had bleeding at about 6weeks in the pregnancy, and also a couple of weeks ago at my scan they told me they couldn’t find the baby’s nasal bone, and said the heart rate was too fast, though i had a rescan and they said everything was fine =]) i was really opening up to her and telling her how frightened i have been, though she was just being as cold as ice to me. She says she wont be able to love this baby- that comment ABSOLUTELY sickened me, i think that is such a terrible thing to say and i dont know WHY she said it.. She says i wont be able to cope on my own with a large dog and a baby, my dad agrees with this too, though im sure that even though it is hard i will be Ok and manage, they are judging my dog by her breed though she is very gentle and wouldn’t hurt a fly (although i would never leave her alone with the baby or anything like that). I said to them- "look, i am not going to be asking for you to babysit, im not going to be asking you for money- all i want is a little emotional support! Cant you at least offer me that?" And they didnt really reply and my mum said she cant pretend to be happy about it. No one wants to see my scan photos, they are just being so mean about it all… I don’t mind them raising concerns, although being so negative is not going to help- it would be so nice if they could offer a little encouragement and emotional support.. At first i thought maybe they will come round to the idea, though another part of me is thinking our relationship is over- they just seem to hate me and not love me anymore… Im upset about this, though not getting too stressed as im focussing on this baby, and im not going to allow them to stress me too much over this… What do you think about this?? Did any of your parents make you feel bad about having a baby?? I am 20 years old by the way, i will be 21 when baby arrives, and feel i am quite mature for my age, and have had experience as a nursery nurse so i know alot about young children between 3months- 5 years (worked in private nurseries). Please tell me what you all think? Many thanks in advance, God Bless =] ~x~
Sorry this question is so long, but may i just add that i have a 13 year old sister and i told her yesterday about the pregnancy, she is thrilled and is being very kind about it all though she appreciates it is not an ideal situation with me and my partner breaking up, though my parents are mad at me for showing my sister the scan pictures of the baby and said i am "subjecting" her to bad things, such as "being unmarried parent" do you really think it is a CRIME for me to show my sister pictures of her niece/ nephew??? Also they are trying to turn my sister against me, they punished her yesterday for talking to me on the phone (they took her phone and lap top away from her) i personally think this is terrible behaviour on their part, they are trying to make my sister not want to be there for me. Luckily, despite my sisters age, she is very strong minded and has promised me no matter what she loves me and will be there for me. If you manage to read all this, then thanks! =D
i think your family is being very selfish they should be there and support you i don’t know what there problem is
mommy to be | Feb 08, 2010
F*ck them! (sorry)
If you don’t need their money or anything from them then they have absolutely no say. I’m 20 and TTC and my parents were openly excited when my husband and I announced we wanted to start trying to have a baby a year and a half ago.
Just imagine though, if they aren’t around you can’t get their nagging horrible advice! I hate to watch how some of the women here get incorrect and harmful advice from their relatives trying to tell them how to raise kids that aren’t even theirs.
Army Bride 7/23/08 | Feb 08, 2010
It sounds like you have it all figured out. You know what’s best for your baby. It’s terrible they are treating you this way. It is completely uncalled for. The only thing you can do now is avoid them for the time being. I wish this wasn’t the case and I wish you had their support, but because you don’t, the stress will be too much for you and your baby. You are planning ahead, you already love this baby, you WILL be a great mommy no matter what they might think. Congrats, and stay strong, you will do just fine on your own :-))
mary b | Feb 08, 2010
It’s your life, and if you lived it by doing everything the way they wanted you to then that would be their life, Yes, they may not agree with it but they’ll get over it.
Your an adult.
Regan | Feb 08, 2010
Maybe they are just upset you didnt tell them, and that you are going to raise the baby alone, they probably wanted you- like every mother and father to be married and secure before having a child. They are scared you wont be able to cope, and just want the best for you. However they are behaving rather cruelly, at a time when you should be supported, for now I would just focus on being healthy for your child and not worrying, leave them alone and they will come round,
When alls said and done, its their grandchild, and when they see the baby they will forget any anger they have on your part, im pretty sure about that.
Kate | Feb 08, 2010
hi ya hun my heart goes out o you so so so so much i went ru exactly the same thing i was twenty and had my daughter 2months before my 21st birthday.. me and her dad also broke up and he doesnt see etc. but my mother and father were hugely shocked ive three older brothers two of which have kids and are not wit the mother but they are boys so she actted differently towards them partents hurt me sooooooooooo much it hurts me to thinkof it now 4 yrs on since i told um ( at present were all so close the way it should been from the start and all tru my pregnancy.they only came around when they seen my daughter they melted and that was that the 9 long months dissapeared ( my mother was in delivery with me) i was scared but extremely excited with this pregancny i basically felt worthless felt every ones eyes on me lookin wit disapproval i felt my mothers utter shame and disgust my brothers funily enuf were grand wit it. but yeah i went through it all all down to tears fights wirds been said that can never be took back( and to this day she will still say a smart comment but thats mothers for ya she is the best though and was my rock when my little girl was born you seem so much stronger though and seem grounded all my prayers with you huni
xxxx
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