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Old Hag (2007)
IMDB rating: 4.90
Plot: Work grows more interesting when a new crate containing the body of a famous serial killer arrives to be stored in the warehouse for the week. Strange things start to happen which eventually threaten the well-being of the night crew. The crew tries to explain the strange happenings by basing them on an old phenomenon called “Old Hag.” Follow the night crew and see who discovers the true secret to its disturbing conclusion.
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Directors: Lowe Channing
Actors: Bringhurst Rusty,Candland David,Carrasco Michael,Hammond Ron,Hansen Todd,Peterson Aaron W.,Horror,
how to deal with a stupid, deluded mother?
i cried today cause she won’t let me allow to sleepover at my friend’s house. No, not because she’s afraid of my safety, but cause she says i have low grades. my grades aren’t even that low, in fact, i pass every subject! When i asked her, she told me, no! your sisters never slept at their friend’s houses when they were your age! you’re grounded! yeah, she grounded me just cause i asked her if i could sleepover at my friend’ house. stupid, old hag. most of my friend’s moms are awesome, kind and considerate even if their daughters fail. why am i so unlucky as to have a mother like this? i hate her so much! i wish for her death constantly.i know that sounds really bad, but, it’s true. i was so excited for this sleepover.
That would be hard to live with, thats for sure. I did have some friends with moms like that, really strict, and It bothered me when their punishments also became punishments for ME because they were keeping my friends from sleeping over at my house. I always thought that if you were gonna punish someone, the punishment shouldnt also affect their friends because that just didnt seem fair.
I can understand why you are upset.
BUT… she is your mom. No matter what she is like, it is your duty to respect her and her wishes. No matter how terrible another human being might be to us, they should never deserve our hate. I’m pretty sure that your mother senses your lack of respect for her, and that is contributing to your suffering. And we have only heard one side of the story, perhaps from her point of view you were being disrespectful to her face and that is why you got grounded.
It doesnt matter if you agree with your mom or not, she is your mom, she has the final say and her laws need to be respected. Your best bet in this situation to get what you want, is to surrender to her. Dont fight her. Act as mature as possible.. Tell her that although you feel she is being unreasonable, you understand that she is your mother and you are choosing to respect her desires and will accept her punishment. Make sure you dont call her any names or fight with her, just calmy admit to her that she is the boss and that you will listen.
You might not like that idea, but I do believe that the more respect you show her, the more lenient she will become. The more mature she witnesses you acting, the more thoughtful she might be in creating rules. The more you fight, the more she is going to fight to exert her power over you.
not to mention, anger only begets more anger.
It might not help right away, but be persistant with your attempts to be respectful of her and her rules, and I am sure you will see improvement. You cant get a new mother, and all of us struggle with our parents on varying degrees, we just have to learn to grin and bear it most of the time.
mariekitt24 | Jan 06, 2010
Wow, that really sucks for you. Considering the fact you know your and you’re are different things, you should be good in grades.
Leader X | Jan 06, 2010
ok ok your speakin to an exspert now lol
1. oviously your mum is being very childish so you need to apporach this in an adult way try to compremice (mum what can i do for you if you will do this for me)
2. if she is still being unreasonable answer her questions wiv questions your mum would say(your not sleeping at your friends because you wont be safe) you then say ( why wont i be safe people would be safe if they came her) but dont be argumentative
3. try and prove your resonceble giv a name addres and phone number and say to your mum would it make you feel better if you see there parents
4. if she isnt takeing this and your still grounded acsept and maybe she will see your being adult about it
good luck its becuase your her little girl and she doesnt want to loose you trust i have problems wiv my mum but they love you so just tell them what they wanna hear
Suzy | Jan 06, 2010
I know you think that she is being rough on you cause when I was younger I thought like you did. To be honest it has nothing to do with your grades. Your probably like what 13 - 16, She still sees you as her baby and she is trying to protect you, and you are trying to be more grown up then you are. Trust me the next few years are going to be like this alot. Then when your older you’ll understand. As for your friends moms, some act different around their kids friends but i really doubt they turn a blide eye to bad grades. To be completly honest, its just a sleepover and there will be plenty more.
A good tip is
Learn when to fight and when to back off and breath not everything has to be a war. If you were to maybe ask again without losing your cool ( show maturity and respect ) she most likly will give in. If you’ve already missed it well just keep this in mind for next time 
AV86 | Jan 06, 2010
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